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At Birthday Buds, we believe in the gift of giving, connecting children in need (Buddies) with caring sponsors (Buds) to create joyful and memorable birthdays.

How We Do It

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Make birthdays extra special by signing up to be a Brithday Bud! We'll match you/ your child with an under-resourced Buddy who shares a similar birthday, age, and gender. As a Bud, you will have the opportunity to provide birthday gifts and basic necessities, creating a meaningful connection that lasts until your Buddy turns 12.

Choose your bud type

There’s a Bud type for everyone - whether you want to be matched with a Buddy, give as a group, or donate in a way that fits your lifestyle, you’ll help make birthdays extra special. Plus, you’ll stay paired with the same Buddy until their 12th birthday!

Birthday Bounty!

Once you receive the list from your Buddy, it is up to you what and how much of the requests you purchase. Gifts can be sent directly to your buddy through a retail website (wrapping optional) OR you can shop and ship directly to them.

Chatter!

We stay in touch with you through the entire process, including a follow-up after your Buddy's big day.

Buds for all types

Bud to Bud

We'll match you child with a Buddy who shares a similar birthday, age and gender. You remain pairs with your Buddy through their 12 birthday.

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Class Bud

Sign your school's class up to be a Bud! Everyone chips in and works as a team.

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Big Bud

Adults can also be a Bud! We'll pair you with a child in our program that has the birthday month of your choosing.

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Out of Time Bud

I've signed up to be a Bud but I don't have time to buy gifts! No problem... let us know what you'd like to spend, make a contribution and we'll take care of the rest.

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Monthly Bud

As a Monthly Bud, you'll contribute $10-$50 a month to Birthday Buds, creating a fund for unexpected gift needs. Your generosity ensures no birthday goes uncelebrated!

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Just in Time Bud

In some unforeseen circumstances, our donors are not able to participate at the last minute or we have more kids sign up to be Buddies than we have current donors. As a Just in Time Bud you bridge that gap up to 3 times a year.

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The Deets

Who are the Buddies?

The Buds in our program are recommended to us through our trusted partners. We currently work with Room to Grow in New York and Massachusetts, and Mary Ford Learning & Family Center and Communities in Schools in South Carolina. We do not accept recipient families that are not affiliated with one of our partner organizations.

What’s the Why?

At Birthday Buds we recognize that the financial situation of so many families is dire. We often hear stories of families that are forced to make difficult decisions because of poverty and we recognize that it truly takes a village. By providing fun and essential needs for the children that make up the Birthday Buds Community, we empower families to receive much needed basic items as well as educational and exciting gifts to play a small role in ensuring that all kids feel loved, needed and special.

Show me the Data!

Child Poverty Rate. Stats about empowering families. (This information is forthcoming)

Our Crew

Our Crew is cool too!
Name tag for Hadley Spanier, Development Director & Board MemberName tag for Grace Cowan, Founder & Chair of BoardName tag for Samatha Hawley, Family Director of OperationsName tag of Danielle Faris, Treasurer & Board MemberName tag of Nicole Lawrence, Development Director & Board MemberName tag for Amanda Prohaska, Spanish Speaking Family CoordinatorName tag for Diana Browder, Southeaster Family Coordinator
Grace Cowan
Sudie Anning
Danielle Faris
Katie Wallace
Audra Alexander
Pauline Nakios
Nicole Lawrence
Joanna Della Valle
April Meier
Recognized and nominated for 100 Women of Charleston.
Book cover for "Make Your Kid A Money Genius" by Beth Kobliner
Recommended by "How to make your kid a money genius, even if you're not."
What kid doesn’t love to get gifts on his birthday? What’s more, for some kids, a trip to the store to purchase a gift for a child whose family can’t afford presents can be just as satisfying. Melissa, a mother I know, matches her five-year-old son, Jude, with a kid from a lower-income family living in New York City through and organization called Birthday Buds. One child supplies the other with birthday presents—fun toys as well as some essentials—that he otherwise wouldn’t receive because of his family’s financial situation.

On a recent birthday, Melissa and Jude learned not only that his birthday bud loved Thomas the Tank Engine but also that he needed rain boots and a toothbrush. The list was eye-opening for Jude but also for Melissa. Mother and son went to the bank and withdrew $40 from Jude’s savings account so he could buy the gifts on the list. Making a habit of giving on birthdays and other occasions is a great way to cultivate generosity in your kid, as well as gratitude for all he has.
— Beth Kobliner

Become a Bud

This form is for Donors. If you would like to become a recipient and live in the Boston/ New York area, click here to connect with our partner. If you live in South Carolina, click here or here to connect with one of our partners.

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